How do I Know That my Kid is on Drugs?
Kids and drugs is a fatal combination as the earlier one gets addicted to drugs, the harder it is to stop using them. Here are some signs every parent should look out for:
1. Unreasonable problems at school, disinterest, not finishing homework
Irritability is drug users could cause them problems at school. Sometimes you’re seemingly well behaved suddenly starts shouting at teachers and calling them names without fear of punishment. They don’t finish homework and lose motivation to study which is then reflected in their grades. ‘A’students can drop to the bottom of the class all because of drugs.
2. Unexplained injuries
Too many needle marks and cut marks on your child’s and forearm is a sign of a heroin addict. Cut marks on the forearm are mainly associated with children who are suicidal and thus cut themselves as a means of escaping reality. These kids are also prone to using drugs.
It could also be linked to psychosis which often leads to uncontrolled hurtful behavior towards oneself.
3. Behavioral changes (incessant laugh, glassy eyes, others )
Drug users lack the necessary human trait of inhibition. This means that they are not able to decipher normal and abnormal behavior. Such children will, therefore, do strange things like suddenly laughing at a very random moment or cry even when unprovoked. The crying may then be followed by laughter.
4. Stay out of sight (skip dinners, stay at room)
Unless your child is usually reserved and shy, then change to such personalities should be investigated as soon as possible.
Such kids usually don’t like associating with people who aren’t like them.
You will observe sudden disappearances from the house at very odd hours, locking of doors immediately they enter a room and avoiding all social events that are organized by family.
This may be because drugs make them irritable or they don’t want someone to spot that they have an issue.
5. Change in physical appearance
One of the most significant signs of drug abuse is a drastic change in how someone looks. Most kids on grugs show a radical when it comes to ‘looking healthy.’ An ‘unhealthy’ drug user usually has bloodshot eyes with a change in pupil size which makes them look either sleepy or very attentive.
People who abuse Cocaine get frequent nosebleeds which cannot be explained. Alcohol users have a typical bad breath, and for some people, when worse comes to worst, there usually are seizures without a prior diagnosis of epilepsy.
Kids on heroin have a standard ‘ heroine look’ which describes someone who looks emaciated with unkempt hair and nails. There is also a general lack of good personal hygiene and grooming.
6. Change in appetite
The limbic system also controls part of the taste and so a sudden increase in appetite or drastic decrease in appetite is a red flag for drug abuse. Although this is a weak reason to diagnose a child as an addict, it shouldn’t be overlooked.
Sometimes you won’t be able to tell that your child is doing drugs until they decide to stop using the drugs and then start having withdrawal symptoms. Most kids doing drugs often decide to stop using drugs without knowing that there are side effects.
They do this in hopes that they’ll be able to stay without anyone ever knowing that they tried medications in the first place.
Drugs such as meth cause severe hallucinations which may even be linked to suicide. Meth especially causes one to imagine that bugs are crawling on them. This also leads to hysteria because the feeling doesn’t go away and it drives them crazy.
Someone who is withdrawing from alcohol exhibits involuntary tremors and irritability. Kids who are abusing alcohol are also more likely to be aggressive. Kids on grugs such as heroin also have hallucinations accompanied by paranoia as they can see things that aren’t real.
8. Emotional change
Drugs mostly affect the brain’s limbic system which is the area that is responsible for the perception and production of emotions. It is also where a large part of one’s personality comes from.
Drugs affect this area but causing the release of hormones which lead to mood swings and drastic change in character. As a parent, you may even feel as if you’re living with a stranger in your house.
Drugs also cause an increase in irritability, lethargy even when performing the simplest of tasks, lack of motivation, a loss of interest in family and activities involving family members and long hours of hyperactivity followed by no activity at all.
However, emotional changes may vary depending on the type of drug being used. Drugs such as meth increase a child’s confidence making them outgoing.
Emotional and personality change is a sure sign of kids doing drugs especially if physical symptoms accompany it.
9. Missing objects at home
Missing things such as alcohol bottles or cigars are visible signs that your child could have taken your things. However most kids are smart and so realizing that a particular small missing object could be a sign of something serious, is very hard. Missing prescription drugs that can’t be explained could be the first sign of drug abuse.
The most subtle things such as spoons could be a sign of a heroin addict in your home. Spoons are often used to heat heroin before it’s injected into the bloodstream. Baking soda is also usually stolen so that it can be used as a base for cocaine.
Jewelry and expensive valuables could also go missing which is a sign that your child could be selling your things to get money for drugs.
10. They run out of money faster
Drugs are expensive, and since kids have close to 0 income, drugs can take up a lot of their extra money. If your child suddenly asks for more money frequently and doesn’t offer an explanation on how it’s being spent, then you should probe a little deeper.
Helping your child come up with a budget is a sure way of finding out if there are ‘extra’ purchases that are being made behind your back. Drug addiction can also cause the development of stealing habits and so it’s important to ask around even if you suddenly ‘misplace’ that $5 note in the house.